Happy 2010 and happy new decade!
We ushered in the new year and new decade with a powerful full "blue moon" and a lunar eclipse. Did you feel it? Pretty powerful energies, and the timing makes these events a sort of "power portal" as well.
And that means an even better time than usual for powerful rituals that really help us to 'let go of the old' and open to new and wonderful possibilities and perspectives. Rituals can be powerful both personally, and for our group or business as well.
Not all that long ago, I would have told you that I wasn't the ritual type. Yet this very decade that we've just ended gave me the gift of recognizing and experiencing how powerful conscious ritual can be. And fun, joyful, magical and satisfying, too. As I bridged the old year and decade with the new, rituals were an important feature.
The Double-Oh Decade - 2000-2009
I don't know about you, but as I looked back at the last decade -- 2000 through 2009 -- I was pretty amazed at all that took place, both for me personally and also collectively. And that 'look back' was part of -- and inspiration for -- several powerful rituals. I'll share a bit about them, in case they're helpful as you release the old and open to the new.
Time Magazine called the 00s The Decade from Hell, recounting a historical blend of global and national events that affected many people around the world. Pretty dramatic, and they give their reasons.
For me, the 00s decade was a blend of heaven and hell, amazing grace and blessings woven in with some of the steepest challenges of my life. The last decade started off with my own 'near death experience' -- coming face to face with my own mortality and the resulting shockwaves that rippled through the following years, unhinging my ideas about myself, what had motivated me up until then, and my sense of connection to my vision, inspiration, motivation, and the Divine. That's the short list. There I was, bobbing along in 2000, and suddenly got sucked into the abyss -- the Inanna Journey.
Like Inanna, the journey strips all layers of 'worldly identity'; she dies to her former sense of self and is born anew. Hence, the 'hell' part of it.
'Hell' tends to stick with us mentally, energetically, emotionally, and physically. That's where the 'clear, release, and let go' rituals are vital as we begin new cycles of experience and expression.
Inanna's Journey, and my own, also featured the ascent from the Underworld, stumbling back above the surface with parts of your psyche wiped clear, and finding your way in the "three-dimensional world" with a completely different worldview ... that hasn't fully taken shape or become conscious.
So my walk through the mid-to-late part of the recent decade included just that: an ascent from the depths, and literal re-membering, and then learning to walk in the world with an emerging new perspective. In the more recent years, and this past year in particular, I've slowly been able to see more of the journey with the blessing of hindsight, even as I continue to emerge.
That hindsight perspective also highlights the grace, the blessings, and the many ways that Underworld journey reshaped me, carving new valleys and opening new facets of my being that had been long protected or locked away.
The rituals I did before and following the 'blue moon eclipse' new year featured both -- a recounting of all of it, a releasing and letting go; noticing what I appreciated, what I gained, and how I grew; and also noticing what habits of thought, energy, and behavior were no longer serving me.
New Year Rituals - Emerge & Take Flight
Letting go:
In many spiritual, energy, and shamanic traditions, you have to 'empty' before your cup can be filled anew. To try to move forward without releasing what's no longer needed, is like trying to walk forward with cement blocks tied to your feet. You can do it, but you never quite get the momentum you're really needing. I learned this the hard way!
So one ritual, or one part of your ritual, might begin with releasing and letting go, to prepare the 'container of You' to receive something new and even more wonderful, and that which is more appropriate for you at this stage of your journey. This can be specific, or more general, or include both.
All three of the rituals that I did between New Year's Eve and yesterday included some facet of letting go to make space. One ritual addressed it specifically: I wrote down the radically abridged version of 'my story of the last decade' and then burned it. As the last bits burned to ash, I literally felt a heavier energy lifting out of me. No joke; it was palpable. Try it (remembering to burn it carefully!). You could also dissolve it in water or bury it in the earth for a slightly slower metamorphosis.
Coming present:
This is straight-forward, if very counter to where most of us spend our time (in the past, in the future). Coming present is coming into your body, into the present moment and life as it exists, and releasing all judgment or resistance to what is. This puts you present, with a sense of allowance. Eckhardt Tolle's work is a good guide on this if you need some inspiration.
Why is this important? Again, I learned the hard way, so can just share what I've experienced. You've no doubt heard the saying, "What you resist, persists"? Very true. See above for 'cement blocks' reference; resistance wastes energy, wears you out, and as the Borg on Star Trek NG say, is pretty much futile.
In ritual, you can do your release, and then come present by proclaiming, "I embrace my current reality as it is, releasing all judgment and resistance, and coming fully into the present."
Looking forward:
Once you've cleared space and come present, you're ready to open to new vision and manifestation intentions that aren't bogged down by old stuff. We know the importance of intentions and vision -- we can manifest only what we can conceive of and envision. Our thoughts, words and actions flow from this wellspring.
The delicate part of visioning and manifesting is having a balance of the specific and having a sense of releasing expectations and outcomes. And every teacher I've ever had -- for good reason (again learned through trial and error!) -- reminds us to always include "this or something better, for the benefit of all, and under Grace."
Making it Yours:
If it calls to you, shape a ritual or series of rituals that really allow you to release the old, come present, and open into a beautiful new cycle of experience and manifestation.
And if you'd like some help with that -- individually or for your work or business -- I'd be delighted to help you craft something or even lead you through a visualization or two.
Blessings for a wonderful, blessed, joyful 2010. May this be the start of the Decade of Heaven on Earth, and may it begin with each of us.
Jamie